How to Choose the Right Partner：Romantic Script
- Romantic Script
Are you familiar with Romantic Script ?
Understanding Romantic script allows you to understand what your partner seeks in a relationship and what kind of relationship they are likely to have, enabling you to choose a partner based on personality analysis in the context of romance.
A Romantic script is an individual’s belief about love, and it is said that people with the same Romantic script tend to form stronger connections.
Psychologically, if your Romantic script and your partner’s Romantic script align, you’re likely to have the best relationship as romantic partners.
First, it’s important to understand both your own Romantic script and that of the person you’re interested in.
The 7 Types of Romantic Scripts and 25 Subtypes
1, The Equal Rights Type
- Believes that both partners should have equal power (completely equal)
This type believes that household chores and child-rearing should be shared equally, with no gender gap—complete equality in relationships.
- Love as a Joint Venture
Believes love is built together by both partners, where neither gives nor receives love but creates it together.
- Love as a Journey
Sees love as a long journey that partners walk through life together.
- Love as Gardening
Believes that the relationship should be carefully nurtured and grown.
2, Love is Logical Type
- Love follows a recipe
Thinks love has specific steps and if followed correctly, it will succeed.
- Love as a business partnership
Sees love as a relationship similar to a business partnership.
- Love is analyzable
Believes love can be understood and resolved through analysis and evaluation.
- Love is like a game or sport
Views love as something that requires strategy, similar to sports or games.
3, Love is Rooted in the Past Type
- Love through overcoming trauma
Believes love can only be achieved by overcoming past hardships.
- Our shared history creates love
Thinks that the experiences and events shared with a partner shape the relationship.
- Love is driven by the fear of losing your partner
Believes that uncertainty and anxiety about losing a partner strengthen the relationship.
4, Love is an Illusion and Ideal Type
- The ideal prince/princess exists
Thinks love is meeting the ideal partner, like a fairytale character.
- Appearance matters most
Believes that looks are the most important factor in choosing a partner.
- Love is guided by faith
Thinks love is a divine intervention, that believing will improve the relationship.
5, Love is a Unique Experience Type
- Love is a unique, strange experience
Feels that attraction or love can arise from inexplicable, unusual experiences.
- Love without sexual expectations
Believes that love doesn’t have to be based on physical intimacy or extreme experiences.
6, Love is Submission Type
- Monitoring your partner (controlling)
Thinks it’s necessary to monitor or control a partner, checking on them frequently to confirm love.
- Sacrificing for love:
Believes that sacrificing yourself for your partner is the essence of love.
7, Love is Unfair Type
- Love is born from fear
Believes that love arises when one partner instills fear in the other, such as through abusive behavior (psychopath type).
- Loving the strange partner
Attracted to odd or unconventional partners and sees them as ideal.
- Love thrives on mystery
Thinks that having some unknowns in the relationship makes it work better.
- Love is about acting out set lines or scenes
Believes love is about reenacting specific romantic scenes, like in a movie.
- Love is a constant battle
Thinks love is full of conflict and that if there’s no argument, they’re not being truly loved.
- One partner should dominate
Believes that love requires one partner to dominate or control the other.
- Partner as a piece of your life plan
Thinks the ideal partner fits perfectly into their life plan, like a piece of a puzzle.
Which Romantic Script Type Are You?
It’s important to note that no one romantic script type is “good” or “bad.” The key is that people with the same type of romantic script tend to have successful relationships.
Don’t worry too much about which type you are — just recognize which romantic script resonates with you.
By understanding romantic scripts, you can determine when your partner feels loved.
There are 25 subtypes in total, but focusing on the seven main types can help you understand your potential partner.
When you find one that matches, your relationship is more likely to thrive.
How to Know Your Partner’s Romantic Script
- What is your ideal relationship?
- What do you want from a partner?
…and from their answers, try to identify their romantic script type.
Choosing someone with a similar romantic script type will lead to a smoother relationship.
If your romantic scripts are mismatched, it might create challenges and make happiness difficult to achieve.
Knowing your own and your potential partner’s romantic script can help you find the ideal person for a fulfilling relationship.
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